Stop waiting for Friday, for summer, for someone to fall in love with you, for life. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in now…Unknown I stopped waiting a long time ago because I found out that the secret to success and fulfillment is when you pursue happiness with a different purpose : When you discover that you are ‘You’nique and learn to do you because everyone else is taken. Learn to live life and not take things too seriously. Make the most of the moment you are in. Travel, make new friends, try new things, do the impossible, set goals even when they seem overwhelming, do something different even when you don’t have a reason to do, smile, enjoy life, love your skin, develop self-love even when your mirror is unmotivating. Don’t think too much. Just do what makes you happy and listen less to what people say. You are the CEO of your life. Some people are meant to be hired and some people are meant to be fired. Negativity is a cankerworm and would eat deep when it is being fed. Positive vibes is the only killer. Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible. Don’t wait for people to make you check your bucket list. For example, you want to travel and you don’t have a travel companion, who says you won’t have a fun adventure alone. The positive vibes you exude can attract a friend either on the flight or at your destination. Now tell me, what better travel companion can one ask for? People have translated dreams to reality, created success stories, fallen in love, had meaningful relationships, built empires etc. because they stopped waiting and believed in taking the most of the moment. I’ll give you an example.  I love fashion and writing. On this particular day, I was supposed to attend a fashion event with my sister but couldn’t because I was a little bit under the weather. I had looked forward to this event. The designer is a good friend and I felt so bad about all the fun I was going to miss (I love going out by the ways). But I didn’t dwell on the sadness for long and out of boredom watching the television, something struck me. I thought to myself, fashion designers are highly recognized and celebrated but it is not the same for fashion stylists and bloggers and most times these stylists work behind the scenes with designers. Eureka an idea was born! I quickly went on Instagram and created StylistCurator, a page dedicated to curating and celebrating fashion bloggers and stylists all over the world. So far, the love and support has been massive and overwhelming. Featured fashion stylists and bloggers are so excited I get to painstakingly research and blog them. I only had one reason to start but presently, my mind has gone wild with so many other things that will come out of the StylistCurator brand. All this was because I didn’t wait. I didn’t over analyze. I could have dwelled on missing the fashion event and not enjoyed the moment. Don’t miss the beauty of today because of the ugly of yesterday. Life is like a book, every day is a new page, every month is a new chapter, and every year is a new series. Learn to make the most of it. Don’t think too much, just do what makes you happy. I hope this inspires you.

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